Posts — Purposely Ever After

How do you have enough energy for quality time with your partner at the end of the workday?

One of the best parts about being married is coming home to someone who can provide a soft landing at the end of a long day. One of the worst feelings, however, is coming home so drained that you have nothing left for your partner.rose

How do you make sure to incorporate your partner’s perspective, even if it’s your “domain”

I’ve gotten a lot of questions about how dividing up tasks using “domains” works in practice. Specifically, what happens when something is in one partner’s domain, but the other person has a strong point-of-view?

How do you actively manage the health of a partnership (long distance or otherwise)

In my previous post, I discussed how I accepted a job in the Bay Area while Jason stayed at his finance job in New York City. We’d been engaged only a week or two, and we already had a meaty challenge to tackle: making a long-distance engagement work.